举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。——《如果能再爱一次》 Those that can be lifted and lowered are called lifting weights, and those that can not be lifted and lowered are called carrying weights. Unfortunately, most people’s love is heavy.

By 夜雪初霁